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I remember one session where everyone stayed silent when we started talking about menstruation. But after a while, one girl quietly asked, \u201cIs it normal to feel scared every month before my period comes?\u201d That single question changed the entire room. Suddenly, others began sharing too, about missing school, hiding pads inside bags, or feeling ashamed of stains more than the pain itself. I also remember reading about Kamala Dami, a young girl from western Nepal who died after a snake bite while staying in a chhaugoth (chapuadhi pratha in Nepal) during menstruation. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Stories like hers remind us that menstrual stigma is not just about culture or tradition, it can become a matter of dignity, safety, and even survival. Even in places where chhaupadi huts no longer exist, many still face restrictions that make them feel \u201cimpure\u201d for something completely natural. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
And honestly, it made me wonder: how many of them are carrying these fears silently every single day?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
We often discuss menstrual health in terms of products and hygiene, which are important. But what about dignity? Confidence? The freedom to ask questions without feeling embarrassed? What about the emotional burden of constantly being told your natural body must stay hidden? Because real change sometimes begins with something very small, a conversation that finally happens openly.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Was it through a safe conversation? A school lesson? A friend? Or was it through fear, confusion, embarrassment, or restrictions? This is a question I often ask during community sessions, and the answers are rarely simple. As an SRHR advocate in Nepal, I have met girls who thought periods were something to be hidden at…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":30,"featured_media":4991,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[432],"tags":[190,558,559,40,7],"class_list":["post-4987","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-international-day-of-action-for-womens-health","tag-feminism","tag-menstrual-health","tag-menstrual-hygiene-day","tag-reproductive-rights","tag-womens-rights"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/IMG-20260512-WA0032-1-scaled.jpg","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p3O7nG-1ir","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4987","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/30"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4987"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4987\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4993,"href":"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4987\/revisions\/4993"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4991"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4987"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4987"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4987"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
Sometimes stigma is not loud. Sometimes it exists in whispers:
\u201cDon\u2019t talk about it in front of others.\u201d
\u201cHide the pad properly.\u201d
\u201cPeriods are private.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n![\"\"](\"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/IMG-20260512-WA0032-1-1024x768.jpg\")
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Through my work, I have realized that silence itself can become a form of stigma. One mother once told me after a session, \u201cNobody explained menstruation to me when I was young, so I never knew how to explain it to my daughter.\u201d That moment stayed with me because it showed how misinformation and shame can pass from one generation to another without anyone intentionally meaning harm.
So maybe this Menstrual Hygiene Day and International Day of Action for Women\u2019s Health, the question is not only whether girls have access to pads. Maybe the question is:
Do menstruators feel safe enough to talk about their bodies without shame?
Do communities listen when menstruators talk about pain?
And are we creating spaces where health is treated as a right instead of a taboo?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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Asika is an ASAP Academy alumnus and a member of our country advocacy network Y-SERHA Nepal<\/em> <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"