{"id":3307,"date":"2015-10-01T14:18:13","date_gmt":"2015-10-01T08:48:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/?p=3307"},"modified":"2015-10-01T14:25:14","modified_gmt":"2015-10-01T08:55:14","slug":"dancing-our-way-to-understanding-our-rights","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/dancing-our-way-to-understanding-our-rights\/","title":{"rendered":"Dancing our way to understanding our rights!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/paying-attention.jpg\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"3308\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/dancing-our-way-to-understanding-our-rights\/paying-attention\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/paying-attention-scaled.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"2560,1920\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;4.5&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;COOLPIX S3300&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1443608636&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;7.8&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;800&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.066666666666667&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"paying attention\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/paying-attention-300x225.jpg\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/paying-attention-1024x768.jpg\" class=\"  wp-image-3308 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/paying-attention-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"paying attention\" width=\"329\" height=\"247\" srcset=\"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/paying-attention-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/paying-attention-600x450.jpg 600w, https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/paying-attention-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 329px) 100vw, 329px\" \/><\/a>It\u2019s a fun evening as we watch Patrick Swayze sizzling on the dance floor in Dirty Dancing. A regular mainstream film but we peeled off the layers and discussed the depictions of a young woman\u2019s sexuality and the paternalistic controls, class divides, access to safe abortion, attitude of providers and the ways in which transactional sex can take place without being the stereotypical \u2018sex work\u2019.<a href=\"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/sexuality-values1.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"3310\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/dancing-our-way-to-understanding-our-rights\/sexuality-values-2\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/sexuality-values1-scaled.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"1920,2560\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;4.2&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;COOLPIX S3300&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1443542127&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;6.8&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;800&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.033333333333333&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"sexuality values\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/sexuality-values1-225x300.jpg\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/sexuality-values1-768x1024.jpg\" class=\"  wp-image-3310 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/sexuality-values1-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"sexuality values\" width=\"218\" height=\"290\" srcset=\"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/sexuality-values1-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/sexuality-values1-600x800.jpg 600w, https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/sexuality-values1-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/sexuality-values1-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 218px) 100vw, 218px\" \/><\/a>Smriti then led us into a discussion on sexuality and the way to addressing sexual rights. We went beyond anatomy, physiology and discussed pleasure, rights of young children to be given sexuality education, understanding patriarchal social controls on young women\u2019s sexuality and made the connections between that and the stigma around abortion.<\/p>\n<p>We reflected on our values, where we learn them from and how we accept or reject them and use them to guide our actions.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/fertlity-dancers.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"3311\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/dancing-our-way-to-understanding-our-rights\/fertlity-dancers\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/fertlity-dancers-scaled.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"2560,1920\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;3.8&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;COOLPIX S3300&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1443610847&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;5.3&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;80&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.004&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"fertlity dancers\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/fertlity-dancers-300x225.jpg\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/fertlity-dancers-1024x768.jpg\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-3311\" src=\"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/fertlity-dancers-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"fertlity dancers\" width=\"640\" height=\"480\" srcset=\"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/fertlity-dancers-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/fertlity-dancers-600x450.jpg 600w, https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/fertlity-dancers-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Since it was a lovely sunny day with the green mountains in the background, we conducted a fertility dance on the terrace conducted by Puja and Deepa and helped by Pushpa ! Lots of laughter and fun as the sperms tried to run to the ovum and were held back by the condoms or blocked by the strong arms of the IUDs.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/coondom-in-action.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"3312\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/dancing-our-way-to-understanding-our-rights\/coondom-in-action\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/coondom-in-action-scaled.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"2560,1920\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;3.5&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;COOLPIX S3300&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1443610513&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;4.6&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;160&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.004&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"coondom in action\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/coondom-in-action-300x225.jpg\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/coondom-in-action-1024x768.jpg\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-3312\" src=\"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/coondom-in-action-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"coondom in action\" width=\"640\" height=\"480\" srcset=\"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/coondom-in-action-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/coondom-in-action-600x450.jpg 600w, https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/coondom-in-action-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/uterus1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"3314\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/dancing-our-way-to-understanding-our-rights\/uterus-2\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/uterus1-scaled.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"1920,2560\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;3.5&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;COOLPIX S3300&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1443610330&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;4.6&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;80&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.001&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"uterus\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/uterus1-225x300.jpg\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/uterus1-768x1024.jpg\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-3314\" src=\"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/uterus1-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"uterus\" width=\"640\" height=\"853\" srcset=\"https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/uterus1-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/uterus1-600x800.jpg 600w, https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/uterus1-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/asap-asia.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/uterus1-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>We ended the day with more fun and laughter as we watched Hysteria, a movie based on the invention of the vibrator , the most popular sex toy ever, but which also gives us a window into the lives of women in the 19<sup>th<\/sup> century and the struggles to be given any dignity, respect and of course equality.<\/p>\n<p>Looking forward to more tomorrow\u2026\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s a fun evening as we watch Patrick Swayze sizzling on the dance floor in Dirty Dancing. 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